From Les,
Any time that you are in a relationship and it is starting to get serious, there are a few key facts that you want to look at. The first being, where did this person come from. No one wants to be with a loser for the rest of their life. You can actually tell a lot about someone by their family, and their friends. If their friends are deadbeats, nine out of ten chances you are dating someone who is immature, and the chances of him/her ever growing up is very slim until very late in age. Do you really have time to set around and wait for that? I know I don’t have time for someone to decide that they want to be an adult. I need to make sure that if our relationship gets little more intense, then they need to be right there with me, and not leaving someone out to dry.
The next important factor to consider is if you can actually picture yourself with your love for the rest of your life. If you can’t see yourself with them when your older, then why are you with them now, unless it’s just for fun. If you can see yourself walking down a red carpeted aisle with them in front of a pastor then that person is the one you should be with. However, if someone were to walk up to you and ask you if you are going to marry this person, and you have doubts in your mind, chances are that you already know that there are too great of differences between you and your partner, and it might not work out in the end. There are slim chances, but nothing that is head turning.
Last but not least is the level mind. You want someone who is legit, not giving false promises all of the time. If you have someone who gives false promises all of the time, then get away and get away fast, they are not the ones for you, or anyone else. Remember honesty is the best policy. If you can’t trust your lover to be honest with you, then you don’t need to be with them. Honesty becomes trust, and trust becomes a greater love between the both of you. However, on the adverse side, if honesty is not present then you will be dealing with jealousy, being upset, and possibly hate in the future. No one wants to end a relationship on terrible terms, so try to stop it before it gets too deep. Remember if you are not in the right relationship, that other person may be out there right now, and looking for you, but your all tied up. If you don’t have those qualities in the relationship then you all are just wasting your and your partners time. There is a thousand fish in the sea, let’s try to match the hook to the fish.
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